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April’s hottest queer and kinky events in Berlin

From underground raves to radical sex-positive conferences, here’s where to dance, connect and explore this April in Berlin.

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Spring is here and Berlin’s queer nightlife and kink scene are in full bloom. Whether you want to lose yourself on a packed dance floor, meet the new ‘Mr. Leather Berlin’ or learn radical survival skills from sex workers, this month’s lineup is stacked. Here’s our guide to the events you won’t want to miss.

Gegen Aliens

This event invites you to shed the limits of earthly existence and embrace the unknown. Gegen Aliens celebrates fluid identities and otherworldly evolution by providing a space where exploring what’s out there is liberating, not scary. With immersive art performances, darkrooms and a dedicated FLINTA* space, the night is built for those who defy labels and transcend binaries. Leave normality at the door – the dress code is futuristic and out of this world.

  • RSO.BERLIN, Schnellerstr.137, Niederschöneweide, Fri Apr 4 (starts 23:59), details.

Trans Fag Dyke

Something is tantalising about an underground party in a secret location, and that’s exactly what Trans Fag Dyke is serving in April. This not-for-profit, independent event will feature resident DJ b Silber spinning trance, Eurodance and disco house, as well as the event’s infamous darkroom. Come dance, flirt and celebrate life in a space driven by community and joy.

  • Secret location, Fri Apr 11(starts 23:00), details.

Flashback Friday! The Kinky 90s-00s Party

Celebrate three years of love and fun at the hottest kinky throwback party in Berlin. Flashback Friday! features two dance floors that will bring you hip-hop, pop, euro trash, rock metal and indie. Start with a welcome shot at the entrance, then move through the various play areas or take a dip in the whirlpool. Dress to express in colourful, sexy or nostalgic outfits inspired by your favourite pop icons, TV shows, ravers or video game characters. 

  • INSOMNIA, Alt-Tempelhof 17-19, Tempelhof, Apr 11 (starts 22:00), details.

Villainous: The Time Is Now – A Black Sex Worker-Led Conference

Radical survival and community care take centre stage at Villainous: The Time Is Now – a three-day conference led by the Black Sex Worker Collective (BSWC). It tackles alternative healthcare, financial sustainability and mutual aid through workshops, skill-sharing and art. The conference marks seven years of BSWC activism and closely follows World Health Day. While led by Black sex workers, the event is open to anyone who wants to listen, learn and contribute in a meaningful way.

  • Various locations, Apr 14 – 18, details.

52nd Easter Berlin Leather Fetish Week

The city’s legendary leather week returns for its 52nd edition. This week-long celebration is packed with steamy events, including their signature parties, a leather and fetish flea market, the iconic Mr. Leather Berlin contest and more. Whether you want to cruise, shop or soak up the atmosphere, this event is the ultimate gathering for the global fetish community.

Queer Spring Rituals

Hosted by Karada House, Queer Spring Rituals is a three-day journey of play, connection and transformation over the Easter weekend. From BDSM-fuelled release to sensory indulgence and group exploration, each day builds towards deeper intimacy and self-discovery. With guided workshops, shared meals and playful parties, this immersive experience invites you to cleanse, ground and grow.

  • KARA Kulturraum, Perleberger Str. 59, Moabit, Apr 18 – 20, details.

Charming Theys 1st WINTA* Weekend

For those who want to escape the city, Charming Theys is hosting their first sleepover weekend for women, inter, non-binary, trans and agender (WINTA*) folks. There will be various activities, including movement workshops, love lettering and karaoke, plus plenty of space to rest and recharge. With shared meals and a sober setting, this WINTA* weekend is a chance to nurture yourself and build community in an inclusive space.

  • Arruda Collective, Cöthen 8, Falkenberg, Apr 18 – 20, details.

Cycle-Conscious Sex & Pleasure

Join menstrual health expert Danielle Keiser for an intimate workshop that redefines pleasure by syncing intimacy with the natural rhythms of the menstrual cycle. Designed especially for couples ready to deepen connection, Cycle-Conscious Sex & Pleasure offers hormone-hacking insights, ‘pleasure recipes’ for every phase and a new perspective on arousal and desire. 

  • Womanizer + Co, Torstr. 161, Mitte, Apr 19 (starts 16:00), details.

Kinktastisch!

Offering the perfect mix of play and party, Kinktastisch is great for those new to the scene. April’s lineup features Epicx and DarK LiZZ spinning techno, house and electro, plus a midnight show and toy try-out corners for impact and electro play. Discover new desires in the group areas and play dungeons. All fetishes and genders are welcome.

  • INSOMNIA, Alt-Tempelhof 17-19, Tempelhof, Apr 19 (starts 22:00), details.

Qweer Spring Fest 

A vibrant celebration of queer creativity and community, the bustling Qweer Spring Fest market brings together 60+ LGBTQI-owned businesses, global street food and live performances. Browse handmade goods, get inked, sip fresh cocktails and soak in the spring energy. Entry is donation-based – come show love, support and solidarity. 

  • Manifesto Market, Alte Potsdamer Str. 7, Mitte, Apr 21 (starts 13:00), details.

Wikabarett and the Wildest Queer Family

Cabaret like you’ve never seen before. Wikabarett and the wildest queer family pushes boundaries through live music, theatre, dance and daring performances from some of Berlin’s wildest queer artists. Expect an unfiltered exploration of queerness with themes of BDSM, power and freedom in an immersive show that invites you to let loose.

  • Zirkus Mond, Lilli-Henoch-Str., Prenzlauer berg, Apr 26 (starts 20:00), details.